Wednesday, April 09, 2008
[] Food For Thoughts []Have you ever had a trouble of asking partner out with your friends whom they are not close to or just find it hard to or never communicate with?
How would they react to it?
Well most of the time, the female partner would say that she would rather not go as because they don't know the guy's friends well enough and they would feel awkward. If you think, they are really smart creatures, never want to get involved and sure avoid the problems. What problems? You will soon find out.
And for the male partners, they would most probably make it for the occasion as most of the time, is either they are there for the partner and not for the occasion or the other way round. I have tried it before and i tell you what. The feeling SUCKS! It's like you would feel so transparent there and the worst thing is, your female partner does not really pull you into the conversation or what they usually call the "common topic." Furthermore, some partners might not want to do anything with you for example not even taking A picture(_) with you, "cause, the occasion is not about us"... *Right.* If you think That's all, Gosh, you don't know what would kill you next. After you have finally survive the occasion, the after effect would kill you. You would feel that are had been the stupid-est person on earth. Alright imagine this, you are doing your work and your computer crashed and you would wanna slap yourself for not saving the work. Yup, that feeling. Solutions? Well, it varies from person to person, depending on your character. If you are those who can shut off and turn such humiliation, hey, by all means, continue... you are doing just fine. Another option, for the faint-hearted like me, either you come up with a very believable EXCUSE not to go or the worst
Case scenario, get yourself into it, and find your way out of there. Most
importantly, just bare
with the after effect and sooner, you would get the better of it.
cheers
the sun sets and night covered the world.
6:00 PM
